Pooket

An exploration of randomness

This Saturday - Goddess Tara blesses your pet in Ann Arbor!
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It doesn't matter whether you're a Buddhist or not, just come with an openness and desire to benefit you and your pet! So bring your poodle, your kitteh, your goldfish, or other pet this Saturday to Tsogyelgar Dharma Center, 11AM. free!

To re-enchant the world with the wonder of wisdom bliss is the activity of the Bodhisattvas. Down to the bone, in the marrow of our lives, we long to feel the interbeing of all life. To participate in a Pet Blessing is a step toward realizing the unfathomable depth of our connection with all life..... a step toward becoming fully human. Bring a pet, dog, cat, bird, turtle .......... let the blessing power of the Goddess Tara shower over it!

Tsochen Khandro is a Buddhist master of the Nyingmapa Tradition, Tulku (or reincarnation) of the Dakini Losel Dronma of Golok Tibet. From her earliest youth she displayed an uncommon connection to animals. Her compassion, mastery of mantric song, simple unpretentious style make her a blessing to all beings. Tsochen Khandro does not “teach” but is simply a presence of kindness and wisdom.


Please make sure your dog is on a leash, and your cat in a carrier or on a leash, and all other pets in some kind of container.
Thanks!



Huge Ann Arbor Garage Sale this Weekend!
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BIG garage sale in downtown Ann Arbor - This Friday and Saturday
Please come to our Garage Sale!
or
You know you want cool but cheap stuff for your house!


619 Felch St (between Fountain and Miner)
Fri and Sat May 29th and 30th
9am to 3pm
 
Wood Burning Stove
Microwaves (2)
Dresser
Office Chair
Barstool
Vacuums (2)
Lamps (several)
Air Hockey table
Full or Queen Bed
Books
CDs
Much More! Come have a look! Get cool stuff without spending ridiculous amounts of money!

Shopping education/clothing consultant
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A friend of a friend is starting a business as a stylist: http://web.me.com/autumnk0/Back_Pocket_Shopper/Welcome.html

She is really good and works with normal women- you don't have to be rich or fashionable and you won't come out looking trendy and paying too much for clothes.

I needed remedial clothing advice (my co-workers all dress really well, and I surely didn't). So I worked a bunch with Autumn, and now I am so much happier about the "having to wear clothes" thing!

Text looks fuzzy even with anti-aliasing in Photoshop
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oops- thought I was posting this to a group!


Hello,

I hope this is a good place to post a Photoshop question- if not, could someone please suggest where I could go for advice? I would really appreciate it.

I’ve had this problem when making text layers in Photoshop where the text looks pixilated, no matter what type of anti-aliasing I have set. Do you know why or how to fix this? I’ve asked several people and no one knows.

Thanks so much,
Pooket


Fundraising for VisionBuilders 5K! Please sponsor me!
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Well Dollhouse was even more disturbing than usual this time. Sometimes it's disturbing in an "I don't need to see this" way, and sometimes in a "kinda makes you think" way. This time it was both.

Friday night show Dollhouse getting interesting and good
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I think Joss Whedon's Dollhouse sucked at first- it had no substance. But I feel like the real story arc started two or three weeks ago, and the show is getting way more interesting- and more of what I expected to see from Joss Whedon!

Check it out tonight at 9pm on Fox!

Keeping track of finances with Mint.com
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I discovered a fantastic tool several months ago for tracking finances and budgeting. http://www.mint.com/about/

I had much trouble for a few months in adding a UMCU credit card but today it finally worked right. I had previously had to add it as a loan.

I just spent 90 minutes going into the tool, setting up budget amounts, and classifying my transactions.

I love this tool because:
- It emails you each week with your balance
- It emails you when you've overspent a budget category (although ALL your credit card transactions come in Ln Adv so you have to go into the system and rename them anyway so they'll show up in the right category)
- It emails you if you have a low balance
- It shows you your net worth
- It makes simple charts of how much you've spent in each category each month, and compares that to the natl average.

Check it out!

By the way, I used to use quicken online, which is also free. IT SUCKED!!! The theory and interface were nice, but several times it just stopped pulling my transactions and nothing I could do would fix it. I spent hours with their email customer service trying to fix it (and they used to be a pay service) and the agents were so frustrating. They'd ask the same questions over and over. They'd tell me things were fixed when they weren't. Etc.

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Hello,
My hubby and I are looking for a financial planner. We don't have lots of investments and things, and are not wealthy, but we have the following types of questions:

- Some questions about our mortgages and straight talk about refinancing

- How much we should be saving for our various needs and projected future expenses

- Review our current budget

- Discussion about retirement accounts

Can anyone suggest someone that they personally have employed and found success with. We would like someone who doesn't mind explaining several things to us- not someone with whom you already have to be financially savvy.

Thanks so much,
Pooket

Beezy's is a great, reasonably priced cafe
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Hubby and I went to Beezy's this weekend in downtown Ypsi. We LOVED it. Small, cozy, artsy (reminded me of new york's cafes), and amazing food that is healthy, often organic, and REASONABLY PRICED! We got a light meal each for under $5 bucks.

In your face, overpriced Ann Arbor cafes!!!-- where the coffee costs as much as an entire meal at Beezys :). And the food is not nearly as good.

We always hope for good things to happen to Ypsi's downtown. Beezy's certainly is one of those good things!

Bee apparently is part of the same organic, local, humane buying club that we are a part of. Cool!

http://www.beezyscafe.com/

More on sweatshops and clothing
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I found ONE sweatshop-free clothing store in the US that is reasonably priced enough for most people to shop at: http://store.americanapparel.net/

They have cute clothes but it's pretty much limited to knit fabric and basics for layering. There's one near the corner of State and Liberty as well, if anyone is interested in checking it out...

Sweatshop-free jewelry
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Ok so I totally bought a ton of sweatshop-made clothes (didn't quite realize until afterwards that that's where they were made.) JJill, Urban Outfitters, and Anthropologie. It is hard to admit that I bought them, but then again, I think it's VERY hard to purchase anything that doesn't have some amount of abusive labor practices behind it. It could be a part time job to do this type of research for every single thing you buy.

But, I knew I needed earrings and a bracelet since I don't own any. So I bought them here: https://shop.thehungersite.com/store/site.do?siteId=220

It is cool because they tell you how many cups of food your purchase equals. Also, they give you a little bio on the actual individuals who made your jewelry.

While I'm not a fan of missionaries in general, buying from them to support fair trade and feeding people hardly seems like a bad thing :).

If you have eaten a tomato this winter...
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chances are very good that it was picked by a person who lives in virtual slavery.

This was in Gourmet magazine and is very sad. I am so glad we are getting our produce locally from a CSA this summer. I hate to support such cruelty.

(BTW, if someone could tell me how to do a cut thing, I would be grateful!)


Working at breakneck speed, you might be able to pick a ton of tomatoes on a good day, netting about $50 at 45 cents per 32-pound basket. But a lot can go wrong.

Driving from Naples, Florida, the nation’s second-wealthiest metropolitan area, to Immokalee takes less than an hour on a straight road. You pass houses that sell for an average of $1.4 million, shopping malls anchored by Tiffany’s and Saks Fifth Avenue, manicured golf courses. Eventually, gated communities with names like Monaco Beach Club and Imperial Golf Estates give way to modest ranches, and the highway shrivels from six lanes to two. Through the scruffy palmettos, you glimpse flat, sandy tomato fields shimmering in the broiling sun. Rounding a long curve, you enter Immokalee. The heart of town is a nine-block grid of dusty, potholed streets lined by boarded-up bars and bodegas, peeling shacks, and sagging, mildew-streaked house trailers. Mongrel dogs snooze in the shade, scrawny chickens peck in yards. Just off the main drag, vultures squabble over roadkill. Immokalee’s population is 70 percent Latino. Per capita income is only $8,500 a year. One third of the families in this city of nearly 25,000 live below the poverty line. Over one third of the children drop out before graduating from high school.

Related links
Read more by Barry Estabrook on gourmet.com
Learn how Burger King refused to pay one penny more per pound of tomatoes
Catch up on the latest food politics news in Politics of the Plate
Immokalee is the tomato capital of the United States. Between December and May, as much as 90 percent of the fresh domestic tomatoes we eat come from south Florida, and Immokalee is home to one of the area’s largest communities of farmworkers. According to Douglas Molloy, the chief assistant U.S. attorney based in Fort Myers, Immokalee has another claim to fame: It is “ground zero for modern slavery.”

The beige stucco house at 209 South Seventh Street is remarkable only because it is in better repair than most Immokalee dwellings. For two and a half years, beginning in April 2005, Mariano Lucas Domingo, along with several other men, was held as a slave at that address. At first, the deal must have seemed reasonable. Lucas, a Guatemalan in his thirties, had slipped across the border to make money to send home for the care of an ailing parent. He expected to earn about $200 a week in the fields. Cesar Navarrete, then a 23-year-old illegal immigrant from Mexico, agreed to provide room and board at his family’s home on South Seventh Street and extend credit to cover the periods when there were no tomatoes to pick.

Lucas’s “room” turned out to be the back of a box truck in the junk-strewn yard, shared with two or three other workers. It lacked running water and a toilet, so occupants urinated and defecated in a corner. For that, Navarrete docked Lucas’s pay by $20 a week. According to court papers, he also charged Lucas for two meager meals a day: eggs, beans, rice, tortillas, and, occasionally, some sort of meat. Cold showers from a garden hose in the backyard were $5 each. Everything had a price. Lucas was soon $300 in debt. After a month of ten-hour workdays, he figured he should have paid that debt off.

But when Lucas—slightly built and standing less than five and a half feet tall—inquired about the balance, Navarrete threatened to beat him should he ever try to leave. Instead of providing an accounting, Navarrete took Lucas’s paychecks, cashed them, and randomly doled out pocket money, $20 some weeks, other weeks $50. Over the years, Navarrete and members of his extended family deprived Lucas of $55,000.

Taking a day off was not an option. If Lucas became ill or was too exhausted to work, he was kicked in the head, beaten, and locked in the back of the truck. Other members of Navarrete’s dozen-man crew were slashed with knives, tied to posts, and shackled in chains. On November 18, 2007, Lucas was again locked inside the truck. As dawn broke, he noticed a faint light shining through a hole in the roof. Jumping up, he secured a hand hold and punched himself through. He was free.

What happened at Navarrete’s home would have been horrific enough if it were an isolated case. Unfortunately, involuntary servitude—slavery—is alive and well in Florida. Since 1997, law-enforcement officials have freed more than 1,000 men and women in seven different cases. And those are only the instances that resulted in convictions. Frightened, undocumented, mistrustful of the police, and speaking little or no English, most slaves refuse to testify, which means their captors cannot be tried. “Unlike victims of other crimes, slaves don’t report themselves,” said Molloy, who was one of the prosecutors on the Navarrete case. “They hide from us in plain sight.”

And for what? Supermarket produce sections overflow with bins of perfect red-orange tomatoes even during the coldest months—never mind that they are all but tasteless. Large packers, which ship nearly $500 million worth of tomatoes annually to major restaurants and grocery retailers nationwide, own or lease the land upon which the workers toil. But the harvesting is often done by independent contractors called crew bosses, who bear responsibility for hiring and overseeing pickers. Said Reggie Brown, executive vice president of the Florida Tomato Growers Exchange, "We abhor slavery and do everything we can to prevent it. We want to make sure that we always foster a work environment free from hazard, intimidation, harassment, and violence." Growers, he said, cooperated with law-enforcement officers in the Navarette case.

But when asked if it is reasonable to assume that an American who has eaten a fresh tomato from a grocery store or food-service company during the winter has eaten fruit picked by the hand of a slave, Molloy said, “It is not an assumption. It is a fact.”

Vast differences in Cafe Press T-shirt Styles
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I got two XL women's t-shirts from CafePress. One is so tight I cannot wear it on casual days to work (but my hubby says I could wear it out on weekends if I don't mind the attention!). It's a Jr Ringer Tee.

The other XL women's shirt is a crew neck, and it is so large I gave it to my 6'5" husband!

I'm miffed!

Naked baby playing a keyboard and dancing
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Ok, the parents must have taken the video of their child down- the kid will probably thank them 20 years from now for not leaving up a video of them half naked for the whole world to see.
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Too cute



The Responsibility is on the patient
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As a person with several illnesses, I encounter the paradox of choice in the health world all the time. One thing the author of that book points out is how you have to be a smart patient, and the whole medical world is so scared of liability and malpractice that they put it all on the patient to manage their own care.

This is great to some extent, but I'm a freakin' patient- what do I really know? I love my doctor, so this isn't a critique of her. But, she, like other doctors, leaves so many decisions up to me. And, if I want something from her, it's just not hard to get it. I feel VERY responsible for my care. And that is why I like her.

But what if you were a patient who didn't enjoy this extreme self-responsibility for your care? What if you were NOT a person who researched all drugs and drug interactions for yourself very thoroughly? What if you didn't research and talk to other patients about every symptom you have? What if you weren't comfy telling your doctor things? What if you were too afraid to speak up when you thought the doctor was wrong (I feel like my doc is wrong all the time, but she is an awesome doctor- it truly isn't about being right in some cases. She has no idea sometimes how a drug will affect me or how a symptom feels).

Schwarz talks about how drug companies advertise on tv all the time directly to consumers. Even though it's not like you could just go out and buy the drugs without a prescription. He seems to feel this is a reflection of the burden of choice being put on the consumer, and doctors are being reduced to merely executing our own decisions.

Now that is some food for thought! Probably not interesting unless you have a serious illness...

Great critique of Real Simple magazine
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Continuing on the paradox of choice- here's something I always think as I look at Real Simple magazine (and my simple blog post will probably catch the eye of some marketing person from real simple :))

So Barry Schwarz says that perhaps magazines such as Real Simple don't think of simplicity the same way he does :). Apparently the magazine's catchphrase is:

"Real Simple offers actionable solutions to simplify your life, eliminate clutter, and help you focus on what you want to do, not what you HAVE to do."

The author says "Taking care of our own "wants" and focusing on what we "want" to do does not strike me as a solution to the problem of too much choice. It is precisely so that we can, each of us, focus on our wants that all of these choices emerged in the first place."

Dude, that magazine is all about selling you stuff!!! Cute little organizers, etc.

I went to a friend's house the other day and something I love about her is that she is such a simple person. Her home is so pretty and spare at the same time. I wish I were more like that, rather than having several clutter piles lying around the house, containing ghosts of art projects past. Is there any kind of art I haven't tried? Probably not, short of sculpting and some of those other arts that take some serious tools and learning. I HAVE tried stained glass though :). Hated it.

Choices - Food
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So one area in my life where I am actually pretty good at limiting choices is food. And I have to admit that these limits truly enrich my life and make me happy. Occassionally, if there's something really special out there, I either cheat on my lifetime eating plan, or I feel a little bummed. But it's really not all that much.

I can't eat starch, sugar, or refined grain. This means no bread, no typical sweets, no potatoes. The South Beach Diet is a good example of how I need to eat. I think if I had more choices with food I would go crazy, or have some other food hangups (I've gotta stop craving junk food, I've gotta eat healthier, I've gotta try every single option that whole foods offers), etc. My hangups are relatively few. Other people seem to wonder if I constantly feel deprived for having such a limited diet. I honestly don't feel deprived. I would go so far as to say I feel ennobled by my diet. Yes, ennobled.

Advantages include:
I don't ever have to spend energy wondering if I should be eating something or not- I just know what my plan is, and I follow it.
I can get exactly what I need from the supermarket by scanning the aisles for the thing I want. I don't have to consider 80 varieties of cookies.
I don't have to think about what would be better or worse tasting.
I don't feel like I have to try every single option over time.
I just know I'm different from the crowd, and I accept it with the affirmation that I know how to take care of me. Not everyone gets it, but whatever. I know my life would SUCK if i didn't follow the diet.
I pretty much have a standard grocery list.
I don't have to worry about all the health issues that come from eating badly, because I don't.

Ok, just got a call from my dad about a death in the family. I can't remember what else I was going to say.

Bye for now!

The Paradox of Choice
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My hubby just got me started on the most interesting book- called "The Paradox of Choice" by Barry Schwarz. This seems like the perfect book for me.

I am trying to work on, in myself, the tendency to get hung up on finding just the perfect thing, then fixating on a variation of said thing. And, the tendency to get obsessive about hobbies - to the point that it becomes really tired and draining.

As a person with an illness that deprives me of energy, the stakes have gotten higher for becoming a person who is more ok with not having to explore every single option out there.

The internet seems like a godsend because it enables people with disabilities, among others, to have access to things that they couldn't access otherwise. But, it is also too much of a good thing after a while.

I have been trying to update my wardrobe to be more professional, polished, and artsy-- for various reasons. I used to just pick one store, and only shop from that store for like two years, then pick a new store. But recently I met with a fashion consultant, and it's kinda sparked my interest in beautiful clothing. What started with just choosing JJill as my one store, has just started to become going to www.stylelist.com-- where it's like a metasearch for clothes. I decided I should own a waist belt, so I typed it into stylelist, and it returned 234 PAGES of women's belts. Holy shit! I felt like I couldn't just choose the first one I saw, now could I??? After page 90, I was like "am I f'ing crazy? I just wasted 25 minutes". There was a JJill belt that I couldn't bought that would have been just fine, and I could've had a half hour of my life back!

Where this REALLY manifests for me is hobbies. I tend to get super-obsessive with hobbies. I see a book on sewing vintage clothing, and I suddenly decide "my god, why have I been ignoring vintage clothing up until this point in my life"? Then two days later, it's graphic design. Then, a week later, it's rock painting or some such thing. My body and mind are starting to get tired of this, after 33 years of it. I have got to change my ways... I almost can't help myself. Even as I started reading the Paradox of Choice, I was designing vintage clothing in the back of my mind! When I did henna as a business, I must have bought 12 or so henna books! How many did I use? 6-7. How many pages of the average 30 page book did I use? 8-10.

Anyway, you get the idea. I do have clear values and goals in my mind, but my actions of daily life don't always correlate. I really want to break this habit of obsessive hobbies and overcomplicating, and too many choices. It is a tough one for me.

Well, I'm on page 5 of the book and will post as I work through more of it.

And a semi-quote from a woman who supports "Alternative Hedonism"-- "Capitalism takes what you should have anyway or could have for free, and markets these things back to you for a price."

Out of towners interested in Buddhism can participate too!
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I posted a message about Buddhism for those who live in Ann Arbor, but it's not limited to Ann Arborites!
In addition to what is posted for Ann Arbor folks, there are so many ways to learn about this teaching of Buddhism.

First, the video teachings on YouTube:
- GoddessTaraMusic channel for devotional music arisen in the mindstream of a Buddha. This is not ordinary music, and it carries with it the blessing power of the Buddha.
- Tsogyelgar channel for teachings by Lama Traktung Rinpoche

Here's a very fun and unconventional sample of the blessing music:



Then there's MySpace: http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=105241418

and Facebook- I don't know how to use facebook though!

There is http://www.redtara.org/ which contains a free, full practice from Rinpoche- set to beautiful music. If you are interested in the joyful practices of Tara, check it out. While you need an empowerment to practice certain teachings, you do not need one for this. Rinpoche's blessings arise for all those who practice this sincerely.

There are podcasts accessible through iTunes if you search by "Traktung Rinpoche".

Finally, there's http://web.me.com/traktungrinpoche/Traktung_Rinpoches_World/Traktung_Rinpoche%3A.html
This is Rinpoche's personal website. It contains a taste of the enlightened state in which he lives.

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